What is a lipstick lesbian?

The term "lipstick lesbian" is a stereotype originating in the late 20th century. It refers to a lesbian who presents herself in a traditionally feminine way, often characterized by wearing makeup, dressing in traditionally "feminine" clothing, and having a generally polished appearance. The stereotype often implies that this presentation contrasts with a presumed butch/femme dynamic within lesbian relationships or is associated with specific sexual preferences or behaviors within the community.

It's important to understand that this is a harmful and reductive stereotype. Lesbians, like all people, present their gender and sexuality in a vast array of ways. The term "lipstick lesbian" assumes that a certain presentation equates to a specific type of person, ignoring the diversity and complexity of lesbian identities and experiences. Many lesbians reject this label entirely, feeling it's limiting and reinforces harmful societal expectations about how women, and specifically lesbians, should look and behave. Using the term can be seen as minimizing the individuality and experiences of lesbians.